Want them back?Know your next move.
A personal action plan and message guidance, based on what happened between you.
What do you need help with first?
Mostly choices. Two short written answers.
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See a sample planTwo earlier coaching experiences.
Shared with permission; messages recreated for privacy. These experiences are from earlier coaching, not reviews of this written report. Individual outcomes vary.
“I finally feel like I handled this in a healthy way.”
An earlier coaching client described a healthier way of handling reconnection.
“We are officially back together now.”
An earlier coaching client reported getting back together after guidance.
Inside your report
The why.
The next move.
The words to use.
Your history, their words, and what you have already tried shape the guidance.
Understand what pushed you apart
Connect the breakup to the incidents, unmet expectations and repeated patterns in your account. Understand the core issues your next steps need to address.
See where things stand now
Separate encouraging signs from assumptions. Understand what their words and actions suggest, what remains unknown, and what would need to change for reconnection.
Know what to do next, in order
A practical sequence: what to stop, what to work on first, and when to take—or pause—a next step. Use it to make the decisions in front of you.
Have words you can make your own
When contact is appropriate, receive a complete, natural message or letter shaped around your history and their actual concerns. Review the draft, make it sound like you, and use the timing guidance before sending.
Be prepared for what comes back
Know how to respond if they engage, hesitate, decline or stay silent. Your plan includes how to reassess, not just a single message to send.
Fictional report excerpt
After the breakup: a first step toward talking again.
Example: Sam ended the relationship after repeated arguments, saying, “I don't feel heard. You interrupt and defend yourself.” Sam has replied politely since the breakup. No block, request for space or unanswered contact was reported. Alex has not apologized for this pattern. This fictional excerpt shows the format, not a customer outcome or an analysis of your answers.
Recommended next step
Send one short message that addresses the problem Sam named and asks whether they are open to a conversation. A polite reply alone does not show that Sam wants to reconcile. If they choose to talk, let them finish and check that you understood before responding.
Read the message draft
Hi Sam. I've been thinking about what you said about not feeling heard. When you tried to explain what was wrong, I kept interrupting and defending myself. I'm sorry. I want to work on listening all the way through and checking I understand before I respond. I'd like to hear you out properly if you're open to a short conversation. I understand if you don't want that.
Check the facts and adjust the wording to your voice. This example assumes Alex has not already made an unanswered apology or invitation. It does not apply across a block or a request for space or no contact.
See how the next move changes
- They are open to talking
- Agree on a time that works for both of you. Start by listening to the concern they raised; avoid asking for an immediate decision about getting back together.
- A brief “thank you”
- Let the message stand. A polite acknowledgment is not an invitation to keep asking for a conversation.
- They need time
- Let them take it. If a reply is welcome, one acknowledgment can be enough: “I understand. Take your time.” Do not set a deadline or send reminders.
- No reply, or they decline
- Do not repeat the invitation or argue with their answer. Work on the listening pattern independently. If they ask for no contact or no reply, send nothing further.
How it works
Tell your story.
Leave with a direction.
- 01
Share what matters
Begin with choices about your relationship and current contact. Add the specific events and words later. Relevant detail helps the report fit your situation.
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Review and choose
Check your situation summary and delivery email. See the full price before deciding to purchase.
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Receive your report
After payment and the necessary information are confirmed, we begin preparing your written report. Expect its private email link within 3 hours. The link lasts seven days. Save or print your report while it is open. One revision is included: send one consolidated request about the same relationship within seven days of the first report email.
Your report connects the details you share with relevant relationship guidance. It separates the facts in your account from possible explanations and unanswered questions. The report is a standalone purchase; human coaching is optional.
Before you start
A few things
you may be wondering.
What if I am blocked or they asked for no contact?
You can describe that situation. Guidance focuses on actions you can take without crossing their boundaries, what needs to change, and what would need to be different before contact is appropriate. It will not give you a script to bypass a block.
Will I receive a message I can send?
Yes, when outreach fits the situation: a complete personalized message or letter, with when to use it and what to do after different responses. A breakup or a lack of invitation does not automatically rule out a respectful first message. Explicit no-contact requests, blocking, effective space requests and repeated unanswered messages change the recommendation. When sending would cross those limits, your report gives you useful steps to take without sending.
Can you tell me exactly what they are thinking?
No. The report considers plausible explanations using the events and words you provide. It identifies what remains uncertain instead of treating a guess as a fact.
What does the included revision cover?
Within seven days of the first report email, send one consolidated request about the same relationship. You can add a missed fact, ask us to adjust an impractical step, or refine a message to sound more like you. Eligible requests are processed automatically to update the affected guidance. New relationships and ongoing back-and-forth support are not included; corrections to our factual errors do not use up your revision.
Do I need the coaching service to use my report?
No. Your written report is a standalone purchase. Coaching is an optional service for ongoing discussion, new messages, and changing circumstances.
How do I keep my report?
Your email contains a private link to a written report on our website. The link is valid for seven days. Open it on a device you trust, then use your browser’s save or print option to keep your own copy. If the link expires, contact report support to request a new link after we confirm your order.
Does this guarantee we will get back together?
No. The service helps you make informed choices and improve the parts you can influence. Reconciliation also depends on the other person’s willingness.
What happens to the details I share?
Your answers are used to prepare and deliver your report. Share only the information needed to understand the situation. Names are optional; remove phone numbers, addresses and unrelated private details from message excerpts.
Read our privacy policy for how your report is prepared, the providers involved, storage and your choices. Agreeing to report processing does not subscribe you to marketing.
Start with the two of you
Let’s turn what happened
into a clearer next step.
A paid personal report, with one revision included. Review the price after your answers, before you buy.
Optional ongoing support
Work through the next seven days with a coach.
One-to-one English WhatsApp text coaching with a US-based human coach. Get help with new replies, message or letter drafts, conversation preparation and changes to your plan.
$499 USD · a separate, one-time purchase. You can buy coaching directly. The report is not required, and its price is not credited toward coaching.
We arrange your coach within 6 hours of verified payment. Your seven days begin with the first substantive guidance. During that period, expect a substantive response within 24 hours; replies are not instant. You review and send every draft yourself.
You may request a full refund before substantive guidance begins. The owner processes the request; submitting it does not itself issue a refund.
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